Let me ask you a few questions.
Do you sometimes wonder how everyone else around you has managed to become close and committed with a good guy, while you’re having an impossible time finding a guy who isn’t totally clueless?
Do they know something you don’t?
Are you just unlucky in love and not meant to have a great relationship for yourself?
Are they somehow more attractive than you are?
Why does it have to be so difficult?
If you identified with a few of these thoughts, fears, etc., then I want you to recognize something…
Some women have very few of these negative and limiting thoughts. While other women have tons.
I’m talking 10, 20, 30, and 50 times a day here.
“Negative thinking creates a vibe that puts more distance between her and a man, making communication and connection very difficult.”
What do you think that does to a woman? To get an idea, picture a woman you know who has trouble with men. Now, in your mind, give her some of the fears and negative thoughts that you have.
Concentrate on how these thoughts make her feel and act. See how they affect her emotions, her attitude, even her body language. Imagine how she’ll react when an uncertain situation comes up with a man: jaded, sarcastic, moody, antagonistic, needy, short-tempered.
Got the picture? Good. It’s not pretty, is it?
That’s because that kind of negative thinking creates a vibe that puts more distance between her and a man, making communication and connection very difficult.
Unless you’re dealing with a guy who’s an expert at communication or a natural, it’s up to you to work on this area.
There’s something you can do right now to DRAMATICALLY improve the level of connection and intimacy you have in your love life: pay attention to how you think.
On a basic level, your own patterns of thinking and feeling lead to the actions you take and the behavior you display.
And guess what can create a “negative filter” on your thinking and feelings?
And if you’re finding that your actions and behaviors aren’t “naturally” attracting good men and creating healthy long-term relationships, then you’ve got something to look at right now – your own thoughts and emotions, and your own fears.
My eBook Catch Him and Keep Him is a great place to start to examine the limiting beliefs and fears that can be holding you back from the love life you want.
In it, you’ll learn how to re-frame these beliefs and fears (in other words, work to ELIMINATE them) so that you can create the kind of vibe that naturally attracts a guy for the long term. You’ll also learn the keys to identifying a good guy while weeding out the players.
Download your copy here now: Catch Him and Keep Him risk-free trial. Try it risk-free for seven days and start changing your vibe now.