The thousands of women who read my advice or go through my programs often have mixed feelings.
Sometimes, they want to cry when they realize all the mistakes they’ve made with men.
And sometimes they just want to hit me…
They get really angry with me – they think I’m saying it’s all the woman’s fault, and that men just get a free ride. They think I’m excusing men for all sorts of unacceptable behavior. They think I’m stuck in the dark ages, and that my advice is disempowering to women – without addressing how men can be to blame for so many relationship problems.
That’s the opposite of what I mean to do. Let me explain:
I got into giving advice because I wanted to get women out of bad relationships.
It all started when I was very young – I was raised by my mother and female relatives, and there were always women and more women around the house.
I quickly learned what women often talk about when they get together – how thoughtless, insensitive, and confusing men can be. More specifically, I saw how much pain and frustration women experienced trying to understand men.
Can you imagine how I felt? I didn’t want to see my mother or her friends cry. Then when I became a man myself, I saw that the same predicament befell my female friends.
And I also didn’t want to be the kind of guy who would make women suffer like this.
I wanted to DO something.
So I delved into psychology and science books and kind of became obsessed with understanding how relationships work and what makes men and women so different.
I started learning from experts who had a bunch of degrees in this sort of thing – PhDs, psychologists, dating coaches, medical doctors, and bestselling authors. I read stuff from both men and women. And I started putting the pieces together.
I’m not going to lie – I did this not just to be of service to women, but in order to educate myself so that I could be a better man and have a better shot at a great relationship. I wanted to take responsibility the way I want other men to.
I started out writing free advice newsletters, and the response was tremendous. Women started writing me asking for more. That’s when I created an entire catalog of programs for both single women and women in relationships. Things came full circle when the same experts I had learned from gladly appeared in my programs as guest speakers. And then I got invited to be a guest expert for other experts!
Soon, I realized that men and women were more alike than they are different. And that it’s only when BOTH of them take responsibility that they can create truly amazing relationships together.
But because of my upbringing, I decided to focus specifically on reaching out to women – showing them how to develop the inner qualities that make them happy and, by happy coincidence, make them the most desirable to men.
I also became adamant about one thing: THE MAN YOU CHOOSE IS THE MAN YOU GET!
It was my hope that by empowering these women and instilling self-confidence, and teaching them the inner workings of a man’s mind, they would also learn how to avoid immature men and instead choose the kind of man who was WORTHY OF THEM.
Not every man will grow up with the kind of family environment I did, one that propelled me to understand women, understand myself, and strive to be the kind of man who was worthy of a good woman.
But throughout his life, every man has ample opportunity to take responsibility for himself and how he wants his relationships to go. It is my wish for you that you find a man who is committed to complete responsibility.
My job is to show you how men think and how to develop those inner qualities in yourself that will make you see clearly – and choose a man you’ll want to continue choosing, every day of your lives together.
I'll talk with you again soon I hope, and best of luck in Life and Love.