What Men Really Want In A Woman And A Relationship Explained…



“Do You Know What Your Man
Honestly Needs to Feel Desperately In
Love With You And Remain Utterly
Convinced That You’re The Only
Woman For Him?”

Get Ready To Learn How Men Think, What Their Words & Actions Really Mean… And How To Effortlessly Be That One One-In-A-Million Woman Your Man Never Wants To Lose

Dear Friend,

I have some important questions for you. Think carefully as you answer…

How many times has this happened to you - you’re sitting with your girlfriends and one of them tells you a story about something her guy did or said.

You all look at each other shaking your heads since you’ve all seen this kind of thing from men before. But you’re all still wondering-

“What the heck was he thinking?”

Lots of women have confided in me that they’re constantly frustrated and confused by the things men say and do.

Maybe you’ve noticed how many smart women keep running into the same issues over and over, with different men.

They swear after each relationship ends that they’ll never make the same mistake again. Then a new guy comes along—who seems great at first—but then it happens…

The same problems show up again!

What’s going on here?

Are that many men screwed up when it comes to relationships?

Do they even know what they really want?

And if they do… then why don’t they just TELL YOU and stop making relationships so impossible?

If you’ve ever watched a girlfriend go through the same frustrations with different men, or you’ve had this kind of thing happen for you… then you’ve probably asked yourself one of the following questions:

“Why should a woman have to try so hard with a man? If a man doesn’t see what you’re worth, it’s his fault.”

“Why is it so hard to talk to a man and get him to listen?”

“Why are men so fickle, and why are they so afraid of sticking around long enough to build a REAL relationship?”

“Why do men cheat, and how can you know if your man is one of those who’s likely to cheat, or if he’ll do it again if he’s already strayed?”

“Why do men want everything so “easy” and get irritated whenever anything negative or emotional is discussed?”

“Do men even CARE if a relationship works out or not?”

 If you’ve asked yourself these questions, odds are you haven’t had an easy time in your relationships with men. In fact, if you’re really honest with yourself, there’s lots you just don’t understand about men.

Of course, these problems aren’t all your fault. If you haven’t heard- men are like mascara… they run at the first sign of emotion.

Jokes aside, most men don’t understand a whole lot of things about women either. And it would sure help if they figured it out.

But here’s the thing…

It’s probably time you and the man you decide to share your precious time and energy with make things work together.

If you’ve had a tough time in your relationships wondering what in the world men are thinking, and you see that men don’t get you, either… then odds are there’s has been a huge GAP between you and any man you’re with.

And I’ve got to tell you- this gap is not a little thing. It’s something that, no matter how much you want and try to make your relationship work, you aren’t going to be able to reconnect and bridge with your man by trying harder.

If you take a moment, I think you’ll realize that trying harder isn’t the answer- closing the gap is. Because it’s this gap between you men that’s the source of your recurring problems. And it’s the gap that’s been putting you at odds with your man.

It’s time you closed that gap once and for all, if not for the sake of your relationship with a man, then for your own good.

Of course, you might be thinking this is a little unfair. Why shouldn’t a man be doing more to understand you!?

He should.

But I’m not talking to him right now. I’m talking to you. And I know you have the power to change your life and your relationships when you’re ready. Especially now that you have some amazing tools at your fingertips that I’m about to share with you.


The Way To Your Man’s Heart Is
Also The Way To Creating The
Relationship You Deserve…

Do you consider yourself the kind of woman who would make a great partner to a man in a relationship?

Are you the kind of woman who could make life for a man more amazing than he could imagine, if you could only get there together?

If so, then being a mature woman who knows what she wants and deserves (a great relationship), it only comes down to one single important question for you to ask and answer for yourself… and the rest will fall into place:

What are you doing about this GAP in understanding between you and a man to make sure your love will be appreciated, grow and last?

Think for a moment about where you would be if you had an amazing, mature, great guy in your life. Would you feel more confident if you knew:

  • Exactly what to say and do so that your man would ALWAYS feel that staying with you was more than worth it, even when you had challenges, fights, and disagreements


  • How to keep from feeling unintentionally hurt by little things he says and does…when he may not even know he is doing these things


  • How to keep your man close to you, and inspire that side of him that wants to be a constant source of love and support for you


  • What it feels like when you’re not just hoping that your relationship is going well and on solid ground, but you can tell it’s there by the excitement in your man’s eye each time he sees you after a long day

Wouldn’t this make you feel a thousand times more secure and comfortable in your relationship?

They would, if you only knew these things about men.

But here’s the thing…

If you’re a loving, smart, passionate and thoughtful woman who is truly a “catch” for the right man… then how come you aren’t enjoying the relationship you deserve?

Are men not seeing what they really have in front of them when they’re with you?

If you haven’t been able to make a relationship with a man really work and feel right this far in your life… then odds are that your experiences with men have left you feeling one of 2 ways women often end up feeling:

A) Men are impossible to understand

Or…

B) Men are simply not “wired” for relationships

The truth is, men do things that just don’t make any sense to women. And they do them often.

How are you handling these things?

If you’re ready to get to the bottom of what’s really going on with men, and have the kind of relationship that only comes from closing this gap for yourself… then I’m ready to show you what you need to know about men.

To begin with, let’s talk about the common things men do that drive women crazy. That way, you’ll quickly start having a clearer understanding of things.

Let’s start here:


2 Things Men Do That Seem
Impossible To Understand

#1: “The 180”

You meet a guy who is obviously taken by you and can’t keep his mind or his hands off you. He’s constantly calling you, pursuing you, bringing you gifts, taking you out, and treating you like a princess.

You want to take things slow because you’re not 100% convinced he’s the right guy for you, so you “hold back” a little bit until you can get to know him better and know how you feel about him.

The more time you spend with him, however, the more you like what you see. You are really connecting and having fun together.

Then one day you have something you want to talk to him about.

Maybe it’s something that happened or that he did that hurt your feelings. Or maybe it’s that you want to find out how he feels about your relationship and where he sees it going.

When you go to talk to him about it, he acts differently than he ever has with you. Now HE’S the one putting on the brakes. Now he’s the one saying he “needs time” to sort things through.

Suddenly everything about him changes.

All the loving, thoughtful affectionate and reassuring things he liked doing for you stop. No more call “just to hear your voice.” No more “I’m thinking about you” messages. No more “I can’t wait to see you.”

Suddenly he’s changed 180 degrees in the way he is with you.

It’s almost as if he was interested as long as you were a “challenge.” But as soon as you started to have feelings for him, he got bored. At least, that’s what it seems like.

If you try to talk to him about it, he just gets more distant or annoyed.

So you’re stuck not knowing what happened, or what to do.

#2: The “I’m Not Ready” Excuse

You’ve been dating a man for a few weeks or months and you are getting along great and things feel easy. You’ve planned a nice weekend getaway together and you’re looking forward to it.

Suddenly, he tells you that he wants to postpone the trip because something came up. The excuse seems “fishy” somehow, and you can’t help but think back to a past relationship where the guy started making excuses about why he couldn’t spend time with you, and eventually ended up leaving your relationship.

You again wonder if he’s just “too nice” to tell you how he really feels. So you try to head him off at the pass by asking him if he wants to be in the relationship. To keep your cool you act “tough” and tell him you’re ok either way, you just want to know sooner rather than later what’s really going on and if he’s really there for you and your relationship.

He assures you it’s not what he’s thinking and that he wants to be with you. But you can’t seem to relax. Things feel awkward for a couple of weeks afterward and then finally, it happens…

He tells you he’s not “ready” for a serious relationship right now.

Aha!

You think, “I was right all along.”

Despite what he told you AT FIRST…he really didn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

You were right about what he was thinking and feeling.

Or were you?


The One Thing That Can Make A
Man Feel Like A Relationship Just
Isn’t Working- And Leave

After years of watching and studying real men and women in relationships, and after years of study, coaching, and research… I’ve discovered the most important reason women have a hard time making a relationship work with a man.

It’s not what you may think.

It’s NOT that men are all messed up, or that there is a shortage of good men out there to begin with.

But if you’re a woman who keeps having the same recurring relationship problems with men, then you might start to think you’re some kind of “wrong guy magnet.”

Nonsense. I don’t believe this story for a minute.

Why? Mostly because I’ve had so many women come to me feeling this way… who then suddenly had their “luck” change as soon as they started doing just a few of the right things with men.

*Hint- their life didn’t change because their “man curse” was lifted.

If you’ve ever had that frustrating feeling like you somehow attract all the wrong men… I just don’t believe you have that kind of supernatural ability to identify the one “wrong man” with the same messed up issues out of a crowd of good ones.

The answer is much much simpler.

If you’re feeling like a magnet for bad men and failed relationships… your problem isn’t just WHO you pick.

It’s HOW you go about moving forward in your relationship with men.

If you don’t understand why a man wants a relationship in the first place, or what it means to HIM, then you’re wasting your energy with men.

Which leads me to a pearl of wisdom no woman should be without…

The #1 Truth About Men In Relationships

I’m going to let you in on a very important truth about men and why they so often stop being loving present partners in relationships…

If you don’t know what a man is looking for in a relationship, and what makes him feel great about staying with you… it’s likely that you’re unintentionally making the man you’re with feel like a FAILURE in your relationship.

And not just once in a while- you’re doing this in lots of small ways day in and day out that you haven’t even been conscious of before now.

This is a HUGE MISTAKE to make with a man, and it’s also this all important truth about men-

When a man feels like a failure, he will simply stop giving to your relationship.

Stop and think about this for a second.

Think about how this has been true for you with men in your past relationships.

Let me explain how big of a deal it is for a man to feel like a failure…

When a man feels attracted to a woman and chooses her as the one woman he wants… part of what keeps drawing him closer to her is how easy it feels to be with her and make her happy.

This is the “honeymoon” stage of a relationship.

But when relationship issues come up, “buttons” are pushed, and arguments start… most men are at a loss. They don’t know how to handle it. In fact, often times they don’t even know what’s going on or where all this intense emotional stuff is coming from. They just know that they don’t like it.

What women often say to men at these times is received not as an effort to do good for the relationship, but as a CRITICISM.

And criticism quickly makes a man feel like a failure. A failure at making his woman happy the way he used to so easily. And a failure at being simply WHO HE IS as a man.

When this kind of thing starts, a man feels like he can’t “win” with you.

And once a guy starts to feel this way, you can’t “fix it.” You can only know exactly what this is and what it looks like, and stop doing it…

Or… like lots of other women mistakenly do…

You can continue to push and poke and question him more, which only makes him feel like more of a failure in your eyes and pull farther away.

When this kind of thing starts happening for you with your man… something changes for him in the relationship. And as much as you might not want it to be true… he is actually the one who feels confused about why your relationship isn’t working and is so unnecessarily hard.

And this makes him question whether or not he should even BE in a relationship with you.

Don’t let this cycle spiral out of control anymore and drag you and your relationships with men down, when it doesn’t have to be this way.

The #2 Truth About Men In Relationships

I’ll tell you something true about a good man-

In this day in age, a good man doesn’t need a long-term relationship.

A good man might WANT one, if the right woman is in his life.

But he doesn’t NEED one.

The only relationship a man “needs” is the kind that makes him feel like a stronger, better, wiser and more important man.

A man wants and needs to feel like a HERO in your relationship if he’s going to stay for the long haul.

Unfortunately, lots of men aren’t feeling this way in relationships and it’s causing them to act out or withdraw from their relationship in frustration.

If a man doesn’t feel like a hero with you, and instead feels like a constant or semi-consistent FAILURE, then from experience I can tell you…

It won’t last.

And it only takes a few moments to shock a man into “failure mode” where he’ll start questioning everything and stop trying with you.

Don’t let this happen if you love each other. Let me show you how to avoid “accidentally” making him feel like a failure and how to communicate your painful or negative emotions to him in a way so he’ll LISTEN and feel like a HERO.

I’ll help you avoid one of the biggest reasons men leave women they love, by increasing your understanding of what it takes to make him feel utterly DEVOTED to your happiness instead.

And you won’t have to ignore your own needs and feelings in the process…


If Men Are Different, Do You Know
What Men Really Want?

Are men really so different than women?

The answer is going to surprise you.

I’ll explain it like this…

When it comes to love, sex and relationships, you know from your own experience that men and women are different.

Men don’t think and feel exactly the same way most women do about a LOT of things.

Take how men are with SEX as an easy example.

Men are more visual, and in some circumstances have some challenges with fidelity. Mature men have a specific way of handling their sexual nature and sexual desire that’s much different than most women.

But here’s the strange part…

Men actually have more in common with women than you think because men are first and foremost human beings. Which means…

Men want to feel cherished.

Men want and need to feel your desire for them, or they don’t feel attractive, significant, or important.

Men want to feel a sense of safety within a relationship.

Men feel unappreciated and unheard if a woman doesn’t notice or compliment them.

Men also want to have the kind of FUN that can’t be planned in a relationship, just like you.

But here’s what men want most of all…

Like you, a man just wants to feel UNDERSTOOD and accepted unconditionally for who HE is.

I can’t overstate the importance of this for men.

Men have an intense burning need and desire to feel understood by the woman he’s with just for being the man that he is.

If a woman makes a man feel great in this way, there’s nothing that will take him away from her.

Not day-to-day relationship issues.

Not arguments.

Not hurt feelings.

Not other women.

Nothing.

Why? Because if a woman can make a man feel all those things, and understand and accept him for being a man, he will be utterly devoted to her.

This is one of THE BIG SECRETS to a man’s heart, and I’ve just given it to you.

Now comes the hard part - knowing what to start doing differently with a man when he’s right there in front of you and some of the same feelings or frustrating situations come up…

How will you handle this with him?


What If You Could Forget What You
Thought Was Wrong With Men… And
Give Your Man A Fighting Chance?

Let me repeat something I’ve been getting at here, because it’s very important: What you misunderstand about men are the things most certain to tear even your good relationships apart.

You may be wondering how this is true, and why it’s so important.

Let me tell you a quick story…

Once upon a time a woman was wandering the land in search of a wise woman who was rumored to know the secret of True Love.

She heard from the townspeople in her village that if she sought out the guru, she would tell her the secret and she would be happy forever. So she walked for days to get to the top of the mountain where she heard the guru lived.

When she arrived, the guru greeted her silently and then set about to pour them both a cup of hot tea. When the guru poured the woman’s cup, she kept pouring and pouring until the tea overflowed onto the table and the floor.

“Stop!” the woman said, “The cup is overflowing.”

The guru looked at her calmly and said, “The cup is like you.”

“You are already full of your own ideas. How can I show you anything when your cup is already full? It will just spill out.”

The guru went on… “You must empty your cup before I can fill you up with the Truth.”

Hmm… makes you think.

If you think you already know what men are about… you’re in for more unhappy surprises in your relationships.

This might be hard to hear, but the things that you worry most about in men are often the things you are bringing into your relationship and frustrating him and yourself with.

Before you can have a clear and loving relationship with a man… you’ve got to empty your cup first.


The 3 “Man Myths” That Will
Push A Good Man Away

Let’s take a look at some of the myths and beliefs about men that can lead good relationships down the wrong road.

Tell me if any of these things about men sound true to you:

  • Men like a challenge. They like the chase. If you’re too “easy” or approachable, they’ll get bored or lose interest.


  • Men are dominant in relationships and women therefore are unable to express themselves.


  • Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous.


  • Men would secretly love to date and sleep with different women the rest of their life rather than just have to stay with one serious committed relationship.


  • Men just want to have fun and “freedom” and no responsibility.

I want to suggest something to you right now.

Whether or not you know it at this moment, many of the beliefs you hold about men are quite simply NOT TRUE.

And not only are a lot of these beliefs about men inaccurate, many of them are downright the OPPOSITE of the truth.

Not only that, but I want to suggest something even more profound.

The beliefs or “myths” that you hold onto, consciously or not, are actually PREVENTING you from having the kind of intimate, connected and committed relationship you could be having with a man.

And to a man… what you believe is true about him from the moment you get into a relationship, your own limited beliefs are preventing a man from feeling great with you, as they cast a shadow over him in your entire relationship. And he knows it and is frustrated by it to no end.

Most men don’t like to feel “wrong” ever in the first place in relationships.

But more to the point, they certainly don’t want to feel like a woman is pinning all the ugly warts that every other “creep” from her past might have had on him.

The point is… these misconceptions and beliefs about men you’re clinging to are actually causing you to HURT your relationships, and hurt the man you’re with.

Now that you get this, my first questions to you are:

1) How can you tell if you’re holding onto false beliefs or myths about men?

And next…

2) How can you tell if those misconceptions are ruining your chances for true and lasting love and a fulfilling relationship with a man?

And finally…

3) How can you “UNDO” those misconceptions and actually understand a man better so you can help a man have an easier time pleasing you and loving you?

Let’s start with the first question.

I found the easiest way to help you figure out whether you’re holding on to any myths or misconceptions of your own about men that are causing men to have a hard time getting close to you is to share some specific examples.

Here are 3 of the most common and destructive myths about men that hold women back, and can tear apart loving men and great relationships.

Man Myth #1: Men could take it or leave it when it comes to love and commitment, and would secretly rather “date around” than commit to one woman.

Truth: A man wants to be in a relationship, and has an important desire to be recognized as a great partner by his woman

Have you ever accused a man of not being “ready” for a real relationship?

Or treated him as if he was constantly on the verge of dumping you? But then when as you had time to reflect, you saw that you were just carrying over something from the past that was causing you to feel hurt and uncertain now?

The truth of the matter is that WOMEN, not men, break off relationships or file for divorce nearly 70% of the time.

Women are much more likely to end relationships than men are.

If that surprises you, realize that in one way or another you’ve been seeing things through the small lens of your own past experience with men.

The truth is, men enjoy being in committed, loving relationships as much as the women men share them with.

A man who’s been married is much more likely to want to be married again - even though some women think of divorced men as men who couldn’t make it work and are less quality “relationship material.”

Men are not put off by the idea of commitment and a serious relationship with the right woman- AS LONG AS IT DOESN’T FEEL HARD for him.

It might surprise you to know, but men are begging the women who make them feel great for love and marriage.

But lots of women are talking about how men aren’t able to commit, even though men are doing it every day.

Here are a few simple but profound secrets about men…

Men will do anything to make sure they can avoid committing to a relationship with a woman who is often unhappy and, most importantly, hard to please.

Men crave the affection of a woman who they have an easy time making happy, and men want and need a woman who knows how to INSPIRE them to lead a great life - both as a man and a lover.

If a man starts seeing the signs and red flags of a hard to please woman, he’s going to immediately start questioning if the woman is right for him.

When you show a man that you trust him to be a good partner to you, you inspire his devotion and you trigger his attraction to you.

That’s why, when you know what men want, and what works for a man in your relationship… all of a sudden getting what YOU WANT from him becomes so easy you that wonder how it ever felt so impossible.

In my Inside The Mind Of A Man program, I show you specific ways that women mess up a good thing by letting their FEAR of disappointment and MISTRUST of men get in the way and make what could be easy feel like pulling teeth.

If you’re ready, this program will finally show how the things you’re doing that are ACCIDENTALLY communicating to your man that he’s NOT a good partner, that you don’t appreciate or understand him, and that he can’t make you happy.

This is one of the most common ways women accidentally push away good men they love, and it’s a deal-breaker for a man.

You’ll also learn a tool where you’ll gain insight into what he’s really saying — especially when he pushes your buttons or frustrates you — and you’ll see how you “make meaning” out of he’s saying and by doing this you’re actually pushing your man further away from you.

Man Myth #2: Men are more dominant in relationships, and in “control” when it comes to emotions and conflict. A woman, therefore, has a harder time expressing herself.

Truths:
-Women initiate and dominate in conflict in relationships 6 to 1 over men

-Men are less comfortable with, and less used to engaging in emotional conflict

In a recent groundbreaking study done of how couples act when they’re arguing and in conflict, it was discovered that men often LOOK detached or withdrawn in the heat of the moment as though they might not care… but feel intensely stressed by the argument, even up to several hours afterwards.

Meanwhile women in conflict, although affected, generally feel more comfortable engaging in and continuing to talk about issues of conflict.

In relationship conflict, men sink and women swim.

Here’s something else fascinating…

It was observed that WOMEN (not men) dominated the communication by a ratio of 6 to 1.

But the myths out there about men would have you seeing and believing the exact opposite.

Still, to you it might FEEL like men hold the cards when push comes to shove.

Here’s one of the big reasons why…

One of the things that women tell me frustrates them most when it comes to men is when they tell a man how they feel about something and the man responds by saying, “you’re too emotional” or “why are you so dramatic?”

This is difficult for a woman because it makes her feel as if she can’t express herself at all, or that she should NEVER tell a man how she’s feeling.

If you’ve ever heard this kind of comment from your guy, it might have had the effect of making you think you should never feel ANYTHING negative, or else you risk being told you’re “too difficult.”

When a man reacts negatively when you express your feelings, it’s not that he wants to get away from YOU. He wants to escape, but he wants to escape the FEELING he’s having, not you or your relationship.

When you start to know the TRUTH about how men feel during emotional conflict, it will change everything.

The most fascinating part to all this is that if you ask a man who’s holding the power in your relationship… he’ll know that as a woman YOU are.

You have the power to bring a man CLOSER in the way you express your feelings, or you have the power to OVERWHELM and confuse him, driving him further into his shell.

A woman should never have to feel like she can’t have a “bad” day or express her negative feelings to a man.

However, there are 7 specific ways you can communicate how you feel that will make a man feel you’re too needy, too dramatic, too emotional. And in my Inside The Mind Of A Man program, I’ll go over each of these ways with you so he’ll listen and respond positively to you, each and every time.

Imagine your man not only asking “How was your day?” or “Are you ok” when you’re feeling down about something…but maybe even asking before you even SAY it…just because he can hear the shift in the tone of your voice or see the change in your body language.

But imagine him listening intently and not taking any of what you’re going through too personally, and remaining a source of support for you?

Knowing the right way to communicate your feelings can bring you closer together and create amazing intimacy… or it can drive your man away.

The choice is yours now that you know.

In my Inside The Mind Of A Man program, which I’m about to tell you about in more detail in a minute, you’ll learn how to speak to your man in a way that won’t ever make him go silent, act moody, or withdraw from you.

Instead, he’ll actually feel closer to you as a result, and want to listen and support you. The trick is tapping into his desire to feel like he’s a great partner to you, and I’ll show you how this works.

Man Myth #3: Men aren’t all that interested in what their woman is feeling or experiencing. That’s why they spend time zoning out in front of the TV, or watching sports, or tinkering in the garage rather than engaging with you.

Truth: Men have different needs when it comes relaxing, unwinding, experiencing their own bliss and “freedom.”

You and your man have just both had a long day.

You decide that you’ll go out on a date to a great little place you both love. It’s a place that’s special and romantic for you.

You can tell he’s a bit tired when he gets home, but off you go and you have a great time once you’re there. Throughout the night you finally get to catch up on all kinds of things you haven’t had a chance to connect about yet-

What’s happening with your friends and family…

Work, crazy people in your life, funny things that have happened, and everything in between.

It feels really great, and you and he are laughing and having fun.

Dinner wraps up and you head home. When you get there you go undress and get ready to unwind together.

When you come out he’s there in front of the TV, zoned out.

You ask him if he wants to come to bed, but he barely responds and keeps watching the TV.

Then a wave of frustration hits you- just when you thought you’d broken through with him and you’d finally get to relax and unwind together, he falls into that distant place where he barely seems to notice you or care.

Arrggh!

You feel hurt and frustrated, and what’s worse… when he senses this and hears this he gets irritated and angry with you.

Then you’re both upset and frustrated at each other, feeling like the other one is to blame. And all the happy feelings and good will you felt during the evening now feels forced and you start to wonder if he was really paying attention to you… making things even worse than before.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

If you know what’s going on with men here, what it means, and what naturally inspires your man to understand and see where you’re coming from... you’ll start sharing more of the experiences you want without having to ask for them or have habits of his that take away from this get in your way.

In other words, when he’s behaving like a man, it’s important not to penalize him for BEING a man.

Which is HARD to do…at first. I get it.

It’s not your fault that it can be hard for a man to get where you’re coming from.

But it is your fault if you choose to do nothing about it.

Now there’s a way to know what your man is really thinking, what he wants, and how to get what you want with my Inside The Mind Of A Man program.


Here’s The Easy Way To Have The
Relationship You Want With A Man-
By Knowing What He Wants, And
Knowing How To Have Him Begging
To Give You More Of What You Want

If you’ve ever wondered if you were missing something about men that was holding you back, or even ruining your relationships, then I’ve got great news…

I’ve finally put together the program that gives you the answers you need to understand what is going on with your man in your relationship.

No more guessing.

No more wondering if it’s really you, or it’s him.

No more waiting to see what he’s really thinking or feeling.

Now you can know what men mean with the things they say, why they act the way they do, and how to get what you want in your relationship with a man without it ever feeling like pulling teeth again.

You don’t want to continue the cycle of being the one who has to worry and try and hold together your relationship, while your man acts indifferent and keeps questioning things and pulling away.

And now you don’t have men act this way with you anymore…

I’ve finally spelled out what you need to know about men all in one incredible program - Inside The Mind Of A Man.

This is the program for women I’ve been waiting for years to pull together to answer all the big questions about men- and I can’t wait for you to hear it.

When I presented this program live in person in Los Angeles a little while back I was a little worried…

Some of the stuff I share about men in this program is a little too honest, and little racy, and I wondered if it would be hard for some women to hear.

The “Ooo’s” and “Ahhh’s” I heard and I started getting into the program told me everything I needed to know though- the women who heard what I shared in this program came away understanding men in a whole new way.

I literally saw them re-energized with an outlook and a new approach, even with the stuff that was really tugging at their heart and mind when they came in.

But I’ll stop the ranting and tell you some of the details about what’s in this program for you-

Here are a few of the powerful secrets you’ll learn in this unique program about men:

  • The 3 Greatest Fears most men have about relationships… once you know these it will put ALL his actions in a new perspective for you


  • How getting a man to do things on his own that are important to him and feed his soul actually will add fuel and energy to your relationship… and how this becomes easy for you


  • What you need to know about why men cheat, even when they’re in love with a woman


  • The 6 Ways To AFFAIR PROOF your relationship with a man, some of which are easy to apply “no-brainers”, and a couple that are sure to surprise you


  • How you might literally be “talking your relationship to death” — and better ways to communicate that will enable him to “step up” and want to connect with you


  • The 2 Types of Male Commitment, and the 4 specific “qualifiers” for a man when he’s considering making a forever commitment to you


  • The 8 Attraction Killers for a Man and why you should avoid these or else you risk your man wanting to leave for good


  • What most women aren’t talking about with men and sexuality, and how this relates to cheating and infidelity


  • The importance of keeping your “sexual polarity” alive in order to keep the attraction and sexual tension alive throughout your relationship… and simple ways to do this with your man that will re-ignite any relationship


  • The 7 Things Men REALLY Want From A Woman — if you’re fulfilling these needs from a man he will never leave you…period


  • The 7 Deadly Signs of an Immature Man — know how to spot him instantly so you never again have to waste your time with a man who’s NEVER going to “grow up”


  • Are you spending needless energy criticizing a man for the things that MAKE him a man? Learn how to recognize the “bad” qualities from the ones that are “male”, so you can stop hitting your head against a wall


  • The most common, annoying or hurtful things men say…like “You’re too dramatic” or “I really need my space right now”, what it REALLY means, and what you can do to instantly have him see you in a different light


  • Find out whether or not men are intimidated or “scared off” by successful or confident women… and which of your traits YOU can show that a man will go crazy over


  • Find out when it’s the right time to talk to a man and when he absolutely NEEDS for you to say nothing at all…and how to tell the difference between the two, so you can plan the right “timing” when communicating something important to him


  • The 7 Keys to communicating without seeming “needy”… and I’ll tell you right now, most of them are NOT obvious. You could be doing them right now and you wouldn’t even know it


  • Why you are attracted and stay with the same kind of man over and over… even when he’s NOT right for you. Plus some simple tools to bring awareness to your choice in men that will completely turn your love life around


  • A specific tool and exercise to get “into his head” and figure out what he’s thinking and experiencing…while at the same time seeing why certain words push all your buttons


  • What MATURITY looks like for a man, what the 4 key areas of development are during his life. Knowing the “check-list” of traits can help you find and KEEP the right man for you. (It has nothing to do with a man’s age or experience)


  • The 3 most frustrating relationship mistakes men are almost sure to make… and what to do about each one so they don’t drain you or ruin your relationship


  • The 3 things that every man wants to RUN AWAY from your relationship, how to know if you’re doing any of these, and if so how to STOP


  • How most women are preventing themselves from being able to express their needs to a man, and how to instead start feeling EMPOWERED and be heard by your man


  • What REALLY happens in a man’s mind when you discuss a difficult or emotional situation with a man… exactly how he’s feeling and what he wants to do…and why knowing this will change how you communicate with ANY man in your life forever


  • Is it true that men don’t listen? Find out the truth once and for all, so you’re not constantly banging your head against the wall trying to get him to…see your point of view…take out the garbage…be more romantic…and simply speak in a way to GET HIS ATTENTION


  • The “Relationship Pendulum”: Why wanting the OPPOSITE kind of man from the last one you dated often can lead to a different, and often WORSE kind of failure…How to be happy with the man you are NATURALLY drawn to, no matter what his strengths and weaknesses


  • Why lacking “sexual maturity” can lead a man to cheat or even stop wanting to have sex with you, even if he’s in love with you. Discover the SIGNS of sexually maturity so you can know if your relationship is vulnerable to this kind of difficulty


  • How to tell from the way a man TALKS and what he SAYS if he’s emotionally mature and is capable of having a good, long-term relationship with you


  • Mature, “together” men have problems too! Learn the common male issues all men have, regardless of what stage they are in their life, so you can give your man the sensitivity and compassion he craves…and strengthen the bond you have with him


  • The 3 Male Archetypes and why knowing them can help you figure out exactly where your man is at in life, what his strengths and weaknesses are, and what a relationship MEANS TO HIM


  • Why men “Emotionally Overload” and how you can prevent him from withdrawing by following this one simple rule…


  • The 3 questions to ask a man about himself and his life (whether you’re on a first date or are struggling to figure out to stay or go)…to be able to determine if he’ll EVER meet your needs


  • The 2 Types of men and how to figure out which one best suits YOU


  • From Guest Adam Gilad: How to use body language and touch with a man to release tension and anger in a relationship, instantly


  • From special guest Alex Allman (author of Revolutionary Sex): Exactly how long the sexual novelty and excitement lasts in a new relationship, and what to do when this period of time is over in order to KEEP the excitement and passion alive


  • Also from Alex Allman: Why pornography is destructive and dangerous for a man, what it can mean to your sex life with him if he’s addicted to it, and how to handle it


  • From special guest David Wygant: The “Rule of 3”: How to get an attractive man to approach you anywhere you are, and a clever and fun flirtatious way of getting him to call you within the time frame you want when you give him your number


  • Frank insights from a group of men about how men perceive “pressure,” what makes them fall in love, what it means when a man is denying cheating even if all the evidence points to it, and what they wish all women knew about men…and tons more

And those are just a few of the things you’ll learn about men and relationships.

There’s enough about how men really work in this program to use one great new idea or tip each for a year and keep seeing amazing new results and experiences with men.

But there’s something else amazing that I put together for you that still has women talking who have already been let in these things about men…


Special “Man Panel” Session:
A Group Of Open Mature Men Tell All
And Confess What Men Really Want
And Don’t Want With A Woman, And
The Surprising Answers Why

What’s even better than an in-depth program filled with real world insights and tips on how to inspire a man to be a great partner to you in your relationship?

I’ll tell you. It’s hearing the truth about how men think straight from the horse’s mouth (real men).

For the first time ever, I got an amazing group of 4 open and honest men who I’ve known for years on stage with me in this program, and we answered the tough questions about men women wonder most about.

We started out by answering some questions about dating and relationships we knew women wanted to know about. Questions like:

“How does a guy know if a woman is the right one?”

“How do men really feel about long term commitment and monogamy, and how do mature men handle this?”

“What’s the difference between a woman who a guy just wants to “have fun” with, and a woman a man really wants a deep relationship with?

Some great answers, and some other great questions came out of all of these.

But then what I feared would happen happened…

I lost control of the whole conversation. And before I knew it these guys were sharing all kinds of amazing insights I’ve never heard men admit to about how they view women, relationships, sex, and everything.

The women who were there for the live filming of this program went wild over this, and they started asking some even deeper and juicier questions.

What came out of it was incredible, and everyone who was a part of this walked away the wiser for the experience.

Lots of the woman at the live recording of this program couldn’t stop talking about how hearing these truths from had changed their whole outlook and helped them see things in a new way.

I’ll leave it at this- you simply don’t want to miss this part of the program.

You’ve got to watch this “Man Panel.” End of story.


Why This Program About Men
Might Not Be For You…

If you’re currently in a relationship where you both seem to “get” each other and nothing your man does feels like a mystery or creates much conflict or misunderstanding between you… then the truth is that you probably don’t need this program.

You already get a lot of the things I share in this program about men that other women don’t get, and which are showing up as recurring issues in their relationship.

If you’re a woman who already “gets it” and men naturally open up and feel understood and free with you, then congratulations and keep enjoying your free-flowing relationship.

But…

If you’re frustrated or confused about why men in your life keep pulling you into the same harmful relationship patterns…then this program will give you the understanding about men you need in order to not only create the relationship that YOU WANT…

But it will also make sure you start to “get it” with men so that any man you’re with feels and senses that you’re the kind of woman who understands him who is fun and *easy for him to be with.

If men are difficult for you, and you find that men are often withdrawing and frustrated with your relationship, it might be tough to look at how a man might feel like you’re NOT easy to be with.

My Inside The Mind Of A Man program not only explains the different stages of maturity men go through, but it will show you why men are always asking for or seeking their “freedom”, and what really means to a man in a relationship with you.

If you want to know whether or not men want to keep their “options open” when it comes to sexual partners or dating, and what it means for your relationship…then this program will give you the insight and advice on how to keep a man devoted to you…and only you.

This program will teach you exactly how to express your thoughts and feelings to a man so that he won’t go “cold” on you, or tell you that you’re being “too emotional” or worse, tell you he “doesn’t want to talk about it,” …so you’ll learn a way to communicate that will open him up to LISTENING and SHARING his feelings.

If you always wanted to know makes a GOOD MAN — what qualities and what personality traits signal a mature, “together” man so that you don’t have to wonder if he’s going to be the right man for the long-term… then you’ll know exactly how to spot a “boy” from a “king” quickly and easily using simple observation.

Men have different “life stages” they go through, regardless of chronological age…so if you want to know how to trigger a man’s “readiness” to commit to you and willingness to MAKE YOU HAPPY for the long-term…this program will show you how.

You will also learn specific tips and steps to take to AFFAIR-PROOF your relationship…told from the man’s perspective… so you can enjoy peace of mind knowing your man will choose to remain faithful no matter what temptations come along.

There are certain qualities and traits about a man indicate that he’s really still an immature “boy.” This program will help you avoid future heartbreak by showing you how to screen a man according to his level of maturity and relationship “readiness.”

If you would like to avoid accidentally turning him off with the 8 most common ATTRACTION KILLERS for a man…this program will show you what is completely irresistible to a man.

And finally, your love life would benefit exponentially if you could only know the secret dirt on what men really think and feel about sex, love and dating…from the perspective of actual men… so get ready, because you’re about to learn things about your man he doesn’t even know!

There’s something you might not want to hear, but in the spirit of a little tough love I’m going to go out on a limb and say it.

If you truly understood how guys think about and feel about women and relationships, then you wouldn’t be still feeling frustrated wondering what in the world men are thinking, and why they do such crazy things.

It’s time for you…

It’s time for you to change your love life and by changing your story with men. And you’re going to start by changing the way men misunderstand and react to how you are as a woman in your relationship.


Finally… You Can Have Your Man
Listen & Understand You Too

By the time you finish going through this program, you’re going to know these 5 important things about men:

  1. Why most men fall for a woman, then want to leave the relationship when it starts getting deeper and more intimate… and how to avoid this common repeating cycle in men’s lives


  2. How to have your man know, beyond the shadow of a doubt, that you’re a one-of-a-kind woman who he’d be dumb to pass up the chance for an amazing relationship with


  3. What the things that men say or do in your relationship REALLY mean, and how to turn these into sources of understanding that will continue to deepen his love for you, and his commitment


  4. What the problems or “issues” almost all men have with women and relationships, and how to easily overcome these without making them your own burden and having them drain you


  5. How to share YOUR NEEDS with your man and have him not only listen, but have him feel INSPIRED to keep you both close and connected — instead of withdrawing as most men do when women share

Now that you’re starting to learn more about men, you’re starting to see that a different kind of relationship with a man is possible.

I want you to imagine what it’s going to feel like when all these things start to come together for you with that right man.

I want you to picture how it’s going to feel when he suddenly starts responding to you and your feelings with curiosity, care and enthusiasm instead of anger or frustration.

Now it’s time to make that a reality for you, with a simple set of tools that will guide you each step of the way in your new relationship with a man.


Get Your FREE “Interviews With
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As a very special one time bonus, I'd also like to send you a FREE CD based audio interviews from my “Interviews With Dating & Relationship Experts” monthly CD interview program.

When you're looking for lasting change and improvement in any area of your life, one of the single most important things to do is to find, meet and learn from the people who are already experts in the area that you're looking for change or growth in.

The world of dating, relationships and love is no exception…

It's common to think that you should somehow just know everything you need to know “naturally” when it comes to men and relationships.

In fact, lots of women (and men) can't stand to admit that they don't know everything there is to know about the opposite sex and this whole area of their lives.

But it's when things stop going “according to plan” (like when a man gets distant, scared or decides he isn't ready for a commitment, or stops “feeling it” for a woman) that we all realize that we're not the experts we had hoped we were…

If you're serious about finding true love, one of the single most important things you will ever do is to surround yourself with other people who ALREADY KNOW how to get there… and have seen and dealt with all the problems you're running into.

And while your female friends are great, I'm talking about people who have not only been through it themselves, and KNOW the exact steps to take in each CRITICAL situation… but people who have also spent years successfully teaching others how to have the kind of success and fulfillment in dating and relationships that they're looking for.

Because this is so important, I've begun tracking down as many of these experts as I can find, and getting each one to “spill their guts” for our benefit.

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This bonus is worth $20.00 alone, and it's yours free just for trying the program. Of course, the bonus CD and all future interviews will be sent to you in plain packaging for your privacy. And this special offer is available only with your purchase right now.

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So now that you know how much there is to know and discover, let me ask you…

What would this kind of deep level of understanding about the man you’re in a relationship with be worth to you?

What price could you put on having the kind of love and security that only come from the man in your life never questioning if you and your relationship are worth it, because he’ll feel so incredible around you?

Is all this perhaps worth as much as a great new pair of shoes, or the cost of a fun weekend getaway?

Well, because I want as many women as possible to benefit from this program, I've decided to price this program at only 5 easy monthly payments of $39.97 for the CD version or… 5 easy monthly payments of $49.97 for the DVD version… and I'm going to cover all the shipping costs myself if you live in the US (a small additional shipping and handling charge will apply to non-U.S. orders).

Best of all… so you don’t have to worry about if this will really work for you and be worth it, I’m going to let you try this program with my better-than-money-back “I’ll take all the risk” guarantee…

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I know this program is going to make easy it is for the right man to know that he needs to be with you, and only you.

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You’ve wanted to make your relationship with a man work, and you’ve imagined how much better it would feel to finally have a man who’s there for you, and who understands you.

The one thing it takes too many women a lifetime to figure out is that to get the love and understanding you want from a man- you’ve also got to know how to give it in return.

Now is your chance to know exactly how to do that.

You have a choice to make here-

You can keep running up against the things you don’t understand about men, and continue the same patterns.

Or…

You can close the gap between you and a man in your relationship- so and grow past the old patterns you’ve had with men in the past.

I’ve designed this program about men to guide you through all of the “big issues” that come up for you as a woman with men… so that when you’re with the right man, you won’t miss out on your chance for love.

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And I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck in Life and Love,

Your Friend,



Christian Carter

P.S. This program will show you exactly how to not only find and attract the right man, but give you the tools you need to make sure your relationship lasts and doesn’t fall apart because of what you don’t know about the man you’re with. Try it and you’ll see results INSTANTLY in the form of a man who’s more excited and passionate about you and your relationship. I truly want to help you experience the love and connection you deserve, and this program will help you do it with the man in your life… even if it’s felt impossible to get what was going on with him before.


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And here’s what some women have written and shared with me after going through this program…

(These have been edited and names changed to initials for privacy)


“This caused me to realize that most men actually want a relationship and want to make their women happy. Important things to learn with this program are how to have a better understanding of how a man feels and thinks about being in a relationship.

The most exciting part about this program is learning about how men view sex vs. making love, emotional intimacy and how to keep the spark alive. Personally, after having done a lot of work on myself by being part of a support group and some individual counseling over the last 10 years, I’ve realized that I never really had a clue about how men think about relationships, what they want and how they think.

This program has given me so many tools to work with. Keep doing the good work!”
– L.R. from Los Angeles, CA

“Your program taught me that a man wants to be free to be himself and be your hero, NOT free from you, which is a misconception many women have. The most important thing I learned is that men are more bothered by stress and confrontation than women. They often see our desire to talk as conflict, thus men are more passive and we think they are not listening. I learned that criticism of your man definitely does not work. Liberal praise and reward is the only way to success with a man. It’s a Pavlov’s Dog thing. ”
– N.W.

“During your program I learned that although at times I have been a Loving Goddess, I need to be more positive towards my man and treat him as the hero he is to me. I love him and have been frustrated at not getting my needs met. Now I understand how to help him be a better lover and a better person. I have the power and tools to find our love again and if he doesn’t accept my admiration and love I have the tools for the NEXT guy I choose.

The most important thing to learn if you invest in this program is that meeting a man is easy. They WANT to meet you; so admire, smile, appreciate and they will bite! Have Fun! The sections of the program that were most exciting to learn about were the phases of Boys, Princes and Kings, Meeting men and teasing them, and feeling your "hotspots". I like the power of how to choose men and not just any man, but the man who is your type and who you want!”
– J.C.

“I have done training and development programs and am absolutely impressed with your delivery. You presented hours of material. This is a heck of a lot of research to do for a program! It all just flows so well and is so informative. I’m very grateful that you and the “Man Panel” are doing what you are doing. You are truly being a SERVICE!!”
– M.B. from Mesa AZ

“I was most excited to learn about the characteristics of maturity for men and women. That men are really unaware of how they go about their lives. That it is subconsciously and DNA driven, for a woman to learn the tools to help her develop the relationship that she wants.”
– A.S. from Newport Beach, CA


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