At Last… A Fail-Safe Way To Naturally
Move From A “Casual” Situation With
A Man To A Deeply Committed,
Long-Term Relationship… Without
Experiencing All Of The Resistance, Withdrawal And Ups -And - Downs
That Come From Not Knowing
Where Things Are Going
And If You’ll End Up Together…

Dear Friend Who Would Like To Learn How To Make Men Commit,

Has something like this ever happened to you?

 You meet a guy that seems to have something “special” about him.

 And I’m not talking about just “another” guy here… I’m talking about a guy who is RELATIONSHIP material.

 He’s not only funny, charming, intelligent and successful… he’s also actually normal!

 Better yet, other people have nothing but great things to say about him.

 The better you get to know him, the more you begin to REALLY feel the connection… and it seems like he feels it too. And when you finally do get together… it feels like “magic” is in the air…

 You intuitively “know” you both feel a unique connection that could lead to something really special.

 Then you start spending more and more time together, and your “dates” start to blend together. And you can't help but feel like you're spending time with someone you've known and been close to for years…

 You can’t keep your hands off of one another when you’re in the same room… and people even stop you in the street to tell you how the two of you seem perfect…

 Life is wonderful… and although you know it’s a little soon, you start to feel like this actually could be “it”.

 There’s fun, passion, romance. Amazing conversations, laughs, inside jokes…

 It all feels so “right” that it wouldn't surprise you if you two could spend the rest of your love lives together and stay deeply connected and in love.

 While you know it’s a little soon to start thinking “that way”… you make up your mind that you’re definitely ready for a committed relationship with him… You want him and no one else. And you'd like him to only be with YOU.

 But the reality is that you don't know exactly how to tell him the way you're feeling, or to find out if he really feels the same way too.

 Although, after all the things he's said and done with you, and all the time you've spent together, you're pretty sure he feels the same about you.

 You decide to “play it cool” and see where this leads...

 But as the days pass, you find yourself hoping he will say something to you… picturing the moment when he will finally open up, share his deeper feelings, and ask you to be “his”…

 But before you know it… weeks have gone by… and nothing…

 Soon a few months have gone by… and you’re starting to wonder what’s really going on…

 Sure… it’s still fun… but where are things going?

 You find your head filling with unanswered questions…

 “Where are we going with this?”

 “Does he feel it too?”

 “Why hasn’t he asked me to be his girlfriend?”

 “Is he seeing other people?”

 “Is this all a game to him?”

 “Maybe he's not feeling as serious about this as I am!?”

 “WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON HERE???”

 You've been patient, but it’s driving you nuts… you have to know.

 You decide to bring it up, in the most casual way possible…

 But when you do, he just doesn’t seem to “get it”.

 Maybe he says a few shallow things like, “What do you mean? We’ve only been dating for a few months!” or… “Everything is great the way it is now!”

 Or worse yet... he completely avoids the conversation, won't open up, and acts like YOU are the one being difficult.

 Then... over the next few days, he becomes more and more distant… things definitely aren’t the same.

 The phone calls aren’t as frequent… communication seems “forced” and awkward…

 And eventually… it stops completely… and the “unthinkable” happens… he’s gone. One minute he seemed to be Mr. Right, and the next he’s gone. And all you have to show for it is a cold, empty feeling in the pit of your stomach.

 Has something like this ever happened to you?

 If so, you’re not alone. I’ve heard this same story from literally HUNDREDS of women… and it always sounds the same.

 It really sucks to have already committed your heart, your time, your energy, and your love for the sake of the relationship… and THEN find out that he’s not even willing to “go there” with you.

 So what’s going on here?

 Why is it that when you meet a guy and things are going FANTASTICALLY WELL… he gets “scared away” from you when your relationship starts to move to the next level of commitment and become closer and MORE CONNECTED?

 Even if YOU AREN’T the one pushing things forward!?

 Shouldn’t HE be the one trying to get a commitment from YOU… or at the very least not RESIST YOU?

 And why is it that when a woman thinks about her guy she is often planning and mentally creating a life for he and she together… and imagining the amazing love, adventure and romance they will have now and in the future… but the guy is usually just thinking about what’s going to happen socially and physically that night?

 And here’s the REALLY big question:

 Why is that that guys seem to be able to “date forever”… and not even care about experiencing the deep connection and intense feelings of love and intimacy that a committed relationship can bring?

 Or to put it another way…

 Why is “casual dating” so comfortable and exciting for men… while they just don’t seem to know how to appreciate and enjoy the amazing LONG TERM BENEFITS of a committed relationship with a great woman?

 The answer to these questions may surprise you… because it is NOT what you think.

 I’ll give you one hint:

 It’s NOT because guys are “screwed up”.

 Sure… some of us are. But even so, that’s RARELY the reason why any of this happens.

 The REAL reason is something BIGGER.

 And if you’re serious about sharing a deep, connected, loving relationship with a man… a relationship in which HE is just as excited about becoming close to you as you are to him… then it’s MANDATORY that you know what it is.

 Let’s get right into it…
Why A Guy Will Want To “Pull Away”
From You When It Comes Time
For Him To Commit…
And What To Do About It…

I heard a great quote recently that I feel describes this situation PERFECTLY…

 “Men are like mascara – they RUN at the first sign of emotion.”

 I’m sure ALL women… and even ALL OF US MEN… can relate to this.

 Have you ever noticed that if it were up to men, “dating” would last for years, mean little, and go nowhere “real”?

 Unfortunately, most women go about trying to remedy this situation in 1 of 3 less-than-effective ways:
  1. Trying To “Convince” Him

    Just like a pushy salesman trying to get you to buy a car, trying to “convince” a man that he should be in a relationship with you actually makes him want it LESS. Why? Because the “convincing” FEELS UNNATURAL… he realizes that if a relationship with you was what he REALLY wanted there would be no convincing necessary. He would FEEL IT on an emotional level, and his feelings would tell him all he needs to know.

  2. “Trading”

    If you start “withholding yourself” from a man when you don’t get the love and connection you want… or you only “give when you get”, you’re trading. Doing this not only keeps you from the very thing you want… but it also creates resentment and distrust inside a man’s mind, to where he won’t even want to give you what you tell him you want inside your “trading game” anymore.

    You can’t “win” the trading game… and this ISN’T how a man and a woman will grow CLOSER and CONNECT MORE if there was distance before.

    The reality is that a man will eventually stop trying to “win” your fickle affections altogether. Then you’re both left with nothing real holding you together.

  3. Giving Him An “Ultimatum”

    While giving your man an ultimatum will definitely get you an answer, when you put a guy on the spot like this, it usually WON’T be the answer you want.

    Pressure does NOT change people’s FEELINGS. Especially when it comes to a man’s often stubborn and unexplored emotions.

    In fact, often times HE doesn’t even know exactly what he’s feeling, because he hasn’t spent much, or any, time “analyzing” everything on an emotional level.

    So, how in the world is he supposed to explain to you how he feels, what that means and how that translates into your relationship in the moment?

    Nod your head if you’ve ever been guilty of one of these 3 “strategies” to move into a more than “casual dating” situation with a man…

    If so, then I’m sure you realize that 99% of the time these strategies only succeed in pushing a man FURTHER AWAY.

    In the rare case that one does work… the bottom line is that it’s an UNATURAL and FORCED way to get what you want… which will bring you a SHORT-LIVED result… at best.

    Fortunately, there’s a much, much better way…
The ONLY “True” Way To
Keep Moving Deeper & Deeper Into
A Committed, Loving Relationship
With A Man… And Make It Last…

Let me tell you a quick little secret about men...

 When it comes to women and relationships, in the beginning, most men think they want to “have their cake, and eat it too”.

 I don't think I have to explain what I mean by this, because I'm sure you intuitively get what I'm talking about, and you’ve experienced this with a man.

 But… notice that I said “MOST” men…

 This is NOT the case with EVERY woman that a man meets and dates.

 That’s right. It’s different in some situations…

 Every once in awhile, a man will meet a woman and KNOW very quickly - without a smidgeon of doubt - that he wants to be with HER and only HER. I’m talking about the situation where a man knows he wants to be with ONE WOMAN because it FEELS RIGHT on a deep emotional level.

 And here’s something else you should know:

 When this happens, THE MAN will usually be the one to push for a long-term commitment.

 And you won’t have to do anything but keep being the great partner that you are and help him with the things he wants to do to keep you both CLOSE and TOGETHER.

 I’m sure you’ve had at least one friend that the men ALWAYS seemed to pursue… and it seemed like they were in the “one up” position. Or maybe this has happened to you before… but you don’t exactly know how or why it happened… or more importantly, how to repeat it with a guy you REALLY want…

 For some strange reason, the guys you DON’T WANT seem to always be PURSUING YOU for more.

 Strange how that works, isn’t it?

 The truth is, getting a guy to WANT to be more and more committed WITH YOU can be summed up in 2 simple steps…

 A woman that TRULY captures a man’s heart will:
  1. Make a man FEEL, through experience, that he’s BETTER OFF being with YOU than being single, spending most of his time with his friends, or “sleeping around”.

    AND…

  2. Show a man, on a physical AND emotional level, that he’s BETTER OFF being with YOU than ANY OTHER WOMAN HE COULD POSSIBLY MEET.

Let’s talk about why these things are so important… and exactly how to make a man feel these things with YOU…
How To Make A Man Feel
He Is Much Better Off With YOU
Than Being Single…

I’ll admit… though I’m in a great relationship with a truly wonderful woman right now, being a single man was fun.

 Like all men, deep down I was looking for something more… but it was easy to forget about that and “live” a little bit…

 I know it might not be your favorite thing to hear, but most men are “designed” by nature to be able to sleep with a lot of women. Men have a “drive” that’s part of their long time role in nature.

 Of course, this is not the way most WOMEN were designed…

 Right now I’m going to show you some of the deeper “subconscious” processes going on with men, so stick with me for a quick second here. Recognizing these will bring you a whole new “level” of understanding and CLARITY about men, dating and commitment that will quickly help you move forward and experience GROWTH in your love life.

 Here’s the thing…

 While a man is physically capable of conceiving a child with several women at a time… a woman is only capable of conceiving a child and giving birth about once a year…

 At the same time, the intense desire for love, intimacy and consistent emotional connection aren’t “wired” into a man’s brain the same way it is for most women.

 Sure… these things are in there for most men… and deep down, being truly loved is what all men want.

 But when I say “deep down”, I mean it.

 In fact… for men, the desire for love and intimate connection is often buried under other layers of “wiring”. Such as the desire to do things like PROVIDE (financial success) or REPRODUCE (sex).

 Give me a silent nod if you’ve ever seen a man value financial success or casual sex more than love and connection.

 Ok, so you’re with me here… Good.

 With the strong impulses of this other level of “wiring”, it’s easy for a man TO FORGET about his “love wiring”. In fact, sometimes men will even think and behave in ways that are IN DIRECT CONFLICT with their impulses to find real love and deep connection.

 Let’s land the plane on all this “subconscious” stuff…

 In order for you to make a man feel that he is better off being with YOU than he is living the “single life” and going around and sleeping with a lot of women… or focusing obsessively on his career until he has enough money to support a family and THEN he’ll start looking for love… you need to remind him of the benefits that a deep, connected, loving relationship brings… and UNLOCK those hidden feelings inside of him.

 Now, this isn’t something you can do just by talking about it. The key is to actually get him to EXPERIENCE those feelings when he’s around you.

 Fortunately it’s easy to do – ESPECIALLY when he already has feelings of ATTRACTION for you. There are EXACT STEPS you can take to turn those feelings of attraction into feelings of intimacy, passion, and LONG TERM connection.

 And here’s the best part:

 Because so few women know how to help a man get in touch with this side of himself – the part of himself that all men secretly LONG to share - when YOU are the one that helps him to do it, he’ll automatically start experiencing a deep connection with you and want to keep it alive and GROWING.

 And guess what that means?

 He will be wanting a COMMITMENT from YOU.
Make Him FEEL, Not Think, That
YOU Are His Best Possible Choice

It really can be as easy as what we just covered above.

 When a woman gives a man these feelings, it flips an invisible “trigger” in his heart that sends a powerful signal through his brain and into every fiber of his body… making him want to be with HER night and day… and no one else…

 A word of caution here – some guys can start getting JEALOUS at this point when they feel such a strong desire to be the only man in a woman’s life.

 But worry about that when you get there. Let’s GET YOU THERE first.

 The reality here is that a guy WILL NOT willfully commit to you unless you flip this “switch”. And no amount of pleading, begging, withholding, etc. will work.

 Sure… you might be able to “force” a man into a relationship… but it WON’T be the kind of relationship you want.

 On the other hand… when you DO flip this switch and trigger these thoughts… HE will be the one asking YOU to commit… EVERY TIME.

 And… there will be NOTHING anyone can do to stop him!

 No amount of logic, pleading from his single “bar buddies”, or OTHER WOMEN will be able to change his mind.
The Secret To A Fulfilling,
“Cheat Proof” Relationship

There are many reasons why people cheat… but I would say the number one reason why a man cheats is not because men are dogs (though some men behave like dogs of a “nasty breed”) but because the woman he is with hasn’t flipped that “one and only” switch inside of his heart.

 And kept the switch turned on.

 Of course, it works in a similar way for women with men… If a man gets into a committed relationship with a woman, and then he STOPS doing all the amazing things he used to do that let her know he was the right guy and would make their love life together infinitely fulfilling, then the woman will start to feel differently about the man and the relationship after time.

 It’s a fact: When a guy finds himself in a relationship with a woman that he DOESN’T feel is the “only” one for him and who can share the positive emotional and physical experiences he knows are possible in his life, he will SUBCONSCIOUSLY start looking to find the woman who is.

 If you want a man to be faithful to you… it’s a MUST that you flip this “trigger”. Because if YOU don’t, a man will either subconsciously, or even consciously, look to find those experiences and emotions somewhere else.

 But there’s good news here too…

 Once you know the steps to lead a man through this process, it’s relatively easy to take your relationship with a man from “casual” to a deeply committed, intimate level where he will continue to look for, and find, the physical and emotional satisfaction he’s looking for with YOU and ONLY YOU.

 Right now I’d like to show you how…
How To Take Your Relationship From
“Casual” To “Committed” In A Way That
Makes Your Man THRILLED With The
Thought Of Becoming Closer To You…
Instead Of Wanting To Withdraw…

I’ve just put the finishing touches on a brand new program that’s designed to teach ANY woman how to take her relationship with her man to the next level… without experiencing the resistance, frustrations, and ups-and-downs that not only get in the way of building a connection with a man… but all too often bring relationships to a screeching halt.

 The program is called, “From Casual To Committed – What Every Woman Needs To Know About How To Move From A ‘Casual’ Dating Situation With A Man Into A Secure, Lasting, Committed Relationship”.

 I created this program because I wanted to help women to better understand that there are important and critical steps in moving from the everyday, “hanging out”, undefined relationship with a man to a relationship with a spoken verbal, physical, and emotional commitment… and that these things don’t happen all by themselves.

 Everyone knows that relationships have roadblocks that must be crossed, but unfortunately we sometimes create these roadblocks without knowing it… and expect the other person in the relationship to get us through them and figure out the answer for us…

 I don’t need to tell you that this is a recipe for disaster… and it happens all too often.

 Don’t leave the fate of your love life and your relationship IN THE HANDS OF A MAN who is much less likely than you are to steer you both into a fulfilling, loving, lasting relationship together.

 It’s time to take responsibility and control of your love life.

 It’s time to finally KNOW what will make a real committed relationship WORK.

 It’s time to learn exactly how to create the secure and committed situation for yourself with a man that will start to GIVE BACK the amazing gifts love and relationships have to offer.

 Let me ask you…

 What if you finally had a “map” that told you where to go next in YOUR SPECIFIC SITUATION?

 Wouldn’t just being able to ORIENT yourself correctly be extremely valuable to you? And what if the map didn’t just show you where you were RIGHT NOW, but it also showed you what was IN FRONT OF YOU… and how to get to where you wanted to go?

 Then something else subtle but magical would happen for you… I know because I’ve seen it before.

 You’d also be more COMFORTABLE, CONFIDENT and CERTAIN about where you were going… which would have a “doubling” effect on helping you actually get to where you wanted to go in your relationship.

 So the question is… Is there a “map” like this?

 And if so… would you want to get your hands on it?

 Well, the “map” is one of the things I’ve created for you with this program. Inside it, I CLEARLY outline what the ACTUAL STEPS are that a woman can take to avoid the common roadblocks men create in moving past the “casual dating” stage… and how to smoothly arrive in a committed situation with a man that you both cherish and grow together.

 By the way, you should know… these are the steps TONS of other women go their entire lives NEVER figuring out… as they stumble from one “dead-end” relationship to another, blaming themselves, and becoming less and less “open” and optimistic about ever finding what they want with a man.

 You’ve seen what this can do to a woman – push her farther away from ever being able to create what she wants in her love life.

 Of course I don’t just show you your own “map” in this program and talk about you and the things you need to know about yourself in a relationship…

 There are also TONS of deep insights about men in this program…

 From how men see and experience “dating” differently from “relationships”, and how you can use this information to understand why a man will actually seek MORE FREEDOM once he’s in a committed relationship than he did when you were just dating…

 To how men will often subconsciously work to create “uncommitted relationships” with women, what these are, how to know if you’re in one, and how to quickly grow past this TOGETHER into something deeper…

 To the differences between a MATURE and an IMMATURE MAN. (Most women I meet have had very few, if any, mature male’s in their life who they can look to, talk to and compare other men to, so they can determine if what is happening is “normal” or a real “issue”.)

 To how and why a man can share a deep connection with a woman, stop dating other women, give her his full attention and “love”, think that she’s unique and amazing, and then CHOOSE to be single. (I explain, in detail, the specific CONTRADICTIONS that are going on inside a man when something like this happens, and how to deal with these.)

 And those are just a few of the insights I share and common situations you are almost guaranteed to encounter when you and a man move towards deeper levels of commitment.

 And in case you’re wondering, here’s how this program differs from other things out there…

 This program was put together by a man (me) who, frankly, has gone through a lot of his own challenges and growth in the exact areas I’m talking about…

 In other words, I really used to be “that guy” who made all the bad choices and mistakes in my relationships. But after going through a lot of pain and frustration in my life, and making the same mistakes men often make with great women in their lives over and over, I decided I’d had enough. I made a commitment TO MYSELF to become MORE CONSCIOUS about why I felt and acted the way I did.

 I wanted to end my own personal patterns and cycles of destructive behavior in relationships with women which kept leading me back to the place where I was ALONE.

 After time, reflection, and lots of help from other people who were already at a higher level of “development” than I was, I thankfully made some amazing breakthroughs.

 After sticking with it for several years, I finally decided it was time to share what some of these realizations, “awarenesses” and growth points were in this program… because I knew they could help other people… especially women who were looking to understand men better and have an easier time moving forward in their relationships with them.

 In case you’re worried about it, I want you to know that I’ve also made sure that everything I went through and arrived at wasn’t just a function of MY OWN EXPERIENCE. (One of the biggest mistakes I could make here would be to make this all about me.)

 That’s why I’ve also spent months and years studying, reading, learning from other sources and experts… and turned my eye to observing other people with different experiences - both men and women who had been through the things I was looking at.

 And I was lucky enough to eventually find and connect with several amazing people, who also knew FASCINATING things in this area, but from a different perspective than mine.

 This is when it all started to come together…

 I had a clear goal that I wanted to meet in putting this specific program together for you – I wanted it to be the first place anywhere that the entire COMMITMENT PROCESS is explained step-by-step in clear, easy-to-understand language so that any woman can take it and use it as her “map”.

 Based on the response I’ve already had from the women who experienced this program live, I was able to do just that.

 The program not only walks you through the psychological, emotional, and behavioral FOUNDATIONS to how commitment really works in the real world...

 But it also uses everyday “real-world” examples so that the “map” and the concepts related to it are simple to APPLY in YOUR SITUATION… including specific “strategies” for communication and getting a man to “open up” that will dramatically impact both the quality of the relationship you are in now and all your relationships.

 In other words, there’s information delivered both in a “general” or conceptual way... to give you the big picture of how commitment works with a man… but also specific exercises, experiences and step-by-step diagrams on how the COMMITMENT PROCESS starts, grows, and can often be broken or interrupted.

 And by the way, the COMMITMENT PROCESS is different for a man and a woman. Not completely different, but different.

 If you don’t know how, and you don’t know why, then even when you are in a committed relationship, growing together and becoming closer will be an ongoing challenge filled with RESISTANCE.

 I break down these differences in 2 clear-cut diagrams, one explaining a woman’s commitment process, and the other detailing a man’s.

 Just seeing these diagrams SIDE BY SIDE and comparing them will bring INSTANT CLARITY to your relationship history and your current situation.

 But I also go into depth on what’s happening in each “stage” of the process for a man... taking real-world questions and walking through their own “relationship scenarios” to explain exactly what’s going on.

 Here are just a few of the other powerful secrets you’ll learn inside:
  • The deadly mistake nearly all women make that makes a guy put his guard up INSTANTLY… and refuse to take it down (If you’ve ever had a guy completely disappear from your life after having “the talk” with him, it’s probably because you made this common mistake)

  • A proven 3-step strategy to find out if a guy is “relationship material” early on (Here’s a surefire way to find out exactly what type of person he is very soon after meeting him… so you can either cut your loses or know with CONFIDENCE that you’ve found a “catch”)

  • A man’s secret communication “button” (Here’s a simple way to get him to open up to you and tell you EXACTLY how he feels)

  • The specific, step-by-step process to move your relationship from “casual” to “committed”, naturally and effortlessly… without experiencing that typical “male” resistance

  • How to get your man to come up with HIS OWN reasons to commit to you… and get him to ask YOU to get serious first

  • How to initiate “the talk” with a man in a way that makes him EXCITED about getting closer to you

  • What to do if your guy is “blowing you off” when you try to talk about your relationship with him

  • 4 common communication mistakes that make a man feel like you are pestering and manipulating him

  • A big mistake women make that makes a man feel “smothered” in the relationship and actually makes him MISS being single (This mistake is one of the biggest causes of breakups, and it’s important that you know what it is)

  • How to understand and control your own internal conflicts and emotions, so you don’t make mistakes that you WOULDN’T have made if you didn’t care so much about the situation

  • The only SUREFIRE way to know with 100% accuracy whether or not a guy is into you for the long-term, or if you are wasting your time

  • The thing that certain women do that allows a men to be with her for weeks or even MONTHS yet NOT want to be in a relationship with her… even if he is exclusive with her

  • The 4 ingredients every relationship MUST have to be successful (Miss any one of these and he will be gone in a heartbeat)

  • Why a relationship is a naturally challenging thing to a man, and how to help your man deal with and get through his own internal conflicts (A little secret: Men WANT to work through these things but usually don’t know how… so when YOU are the one to help him do it he will feel closer to you than he ever has with a woman before)

  • Ever feel like you are doing all of the hard work in a relationship while your man is dragging his feet? Here’s the reason why this happens… and how to change things around so that your man is working with you instead of against you to become closer and more connected

  • 3 things men do to MASK the fact that they are IMMATURE – here’s how to spot and identify the “players”, “losers”, and little boys so you don’t waste your time and end up getting hurt

  • 3 strategies women use to get a man to commit to them that are guaranteed to REPEL him… and even make him dislike you (The sad thing is that society teaches us that these manipulative tactics WILL WORK… but in reality they never do)

  • How your body and attitude can say “needy” and “clingy” to a guy without you knowing it

  • A way to communicate that you are the perfect woman for him (Most importantly… doing this makes a man FEEL that you are his best possible choice… and the ONLY woman he should be with)

  • An exercise to figure out what YOU really need in order to have the most loving, fulfilling relationship possible (This simple 5-minute exercise will help you identify what it is you need to feel the HAPPIEST and MOST FULFILLED… because you have to KNOW what you want in order to get it)

  • Why men feel like it would be best to just “date forever” (Here’s what you MUST do if you want your man to see a committed relationship with you as his BEST CHOICE)

  • How to get your man out of the “swinging single” mindset and into the “relationship” mindset (Your man MUST make this mental shift if he’s going to commit to you, and he knows it. Here’s an easy way to show him that a strong, deep connection with someone special is actually much more fulfilling than meaningless “flings”)

  • A simple exercise to permanently rid yourself of any negative beliefs and “bad programming” that might be holding you back from finding and experiencing true love with a man who deserves you

  • How to tell if your relationship is where it should be (Many women make the mistake of thinking things are moving too slow with a man when in reality they are going just fine. Here’s exactly how to know when you can relax… and when you need to make something happen)

  • How to figure out exactly where your man is in the commitment process – what’s on his mind – how he feels, and exactly what you need to do next to make him YOURS

  • NEWSFLASH: A woman will almost always want a commitment BEFORE a man does… which can create conflict and unnecessary heartache. Here’s a way to “sync” things up and get him on the same level you are so you don’t get hurt

  • A 7-step method to take your already great relationship to exciting new levels of love and connection

  • How to create and amplify a man’s ATTRACTION for you (The single best way to stop him from EVER wanting another woman)

  • A clever way to have “the talk” with a man that ALL men actually LOVE!

  • The 5-steps of the actual “talk” – Here’s how to smoothly lead your man through each one and end up with the commitment you want… while also making him feel with 100% confidence that being with you is the BEST thing to ever happen to him

  • How to smoothly mend any negative situation or fight you have with your man quickly… even if hurtful things have been said

A Deeper Level Of Love And Connection…

By the time you finish going through this program, you’ll also gain these 7 important insights:
  1. A clear understanding of what the commitment process is, and how it works for a man

  2. An understanding of a man’s subconscious resistance to commitment… why all men experience it… and how to make him want to let his guard down with YOU

  3. How to have a loving relationship without “work” or unnecessary stress

  4. How to experience higher and deeper levels of connection inside of your relationship… and connect with your man in a way that no woman EVER has before

  5. How to transition into a relationship FASTER… and skip meaningless “dating” and “hanging out”

  6. How to ALWAYS know exactly where you and your man are “at” in a relationship without ever having to ask him

  7. How to make a faster transition from a committed relationship to the a life-long commitment of marriage (if that’s want you’re looking for)

The Little-Known Secret To
Making Love LAST…

I don’t need to tell you that just as important as leading a man to want to enjoy a loving, committed relationship with you is KEEPING the passion and excitement alive… and continuing to grow.

 If a relationship isn’t growing, it’s DYING… and perhaps the most important thing you will learn in this program is how to continue to strengthen the bond between you and your man, for years and years and years… keeping that fire of intimacy burning FOREVER.

 I want you to experience the life-long love that you’ve been dreaming about, and this program will show you EXACTLY how to do it.
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As a very special one time bonus, I'd also like to send you one of my CD based audio interviews from my “Interviews With Dating & Relationship Experts” monthly CD interview program.

When you're looking for lasting change and improvement in any area of your life, one of the single most important things to do is to find, meet and learn from the people who are already experts in the area that you're looking for change or growth in.

The world of dating, relationships and love is no exception…

It's common to think that you should somehow just know everything you need to know “naturally” when it comes to men and relationships.

In fact, lots of women (and men) can't stand to admit that they don't know everything there is to know about the opposite sex and this whole area of their lives.

But it's when things stop going “according to plan” (like when a man gets distant, scared or decides he isn't ready for a commitment, or stops “feeling it” for a woman) that we all realize that we're not the experts we had hoped we were…

If you're serious about finding true love, one of the single most important things you will ever do is to surround yourself with other people who ALREADY KNOW how to get there… and have seen and dealt with all the problems you're running into.

And while your female friends are great, I'm talking about people who have not only been through it themselves, and KNOW the exact steps to take in each CRITICAL situation… but people who have also spent years successfully teaching others how to have the kind of success and fulfillment in dating and relationships that they're looking for.

Because this is so important, I've begun tracking down as many of these experts as I can find, and getting each one to “spill their guts” for our benefit.

Every month I do a live audio interview with someone whose FASCINATING INSIGHTS will make you more successful with men, dating and relationships… and especially that one special man…

Here's how it works: When you order my Casual To Committed program, I'll throw in a one-month FREE subscription to my “Interview Series” as a bonus just for giving this program a try…

I'm so sure you're going to love this interview that I'm going to pay the SHIPPING to send it to you. If you love it (which you will), keep it and stay subscribed. Every month you'll receive another fascinating interview, and you'll be automatically billed only $19.97 (or $22.97 if you live outside the U.S.). You can cancel anytime, with no hassles or questions. Period.

If you get the bonus CD and you DON'T love the interview and get immediate success and real value from the material, you can cancel and keep it FOR FREE just for trying it.

I'm THAT confident that you're going to love it!

This bonus is worth $20.00 alone, and it's yours free just for trying the program. Of course, the bonus CD and all future interviews will be sent to you in plain packaging for your privacy. And this special offer is available only with your purchase right now.

[Read all about my Interview Series by clicking HERE for a pop-up window that will explain the details. The pop-up can be closed as soon as you’re finished.]

*If you prefer NOT to receive this $20 free bonus, you can “opt-out” with one click while you're ordering… and just get From Casual To Committed all by itself. It's that easy.
Here’s What You’re Going To Get…

  • Over 6 full hours of digitally recorded material on 4 DVDs or 6 CDs (video or audio)

  • An accompanying workbook full of teaching slides and aides

  • A detailed track listing for quick access

  • A sturdy 3-ring binder to hold all of your CDs/DVDs, workbook, and other materials
  • An Additional FREE Bonus… A Free “Interviews With Dating & Relationship Experts” CD

  • This bonus is worth $20.00 alone

  • You'll get it free, just for trying this program
Because I want as many women as possible to benefit from this program, I've decided to price this program at only 5 easy monthly payments of $29.97 for the CD version or… 5 easy monthly payments of $39.97 for the DVD version… And both versions come with my better-than-money-back “I’ll take all the risk” Guarantee…

Don’t Decide Now… Try My “Casual To Committed” Program FREE For 30 Days

I know this program is going to change your life forever.

I know that it's going to help you transform yourself into the absolute best woman you can be.

 And I'm so convinced of that fact that I'd like to send you a copy of this program to try for FREE. That's right, NO MONEY.

Here's what I'm going to do for you:

I'm going to send you a copy of my “From Casual To Committed” program at MY RISK.

If you like it, keep it. You'll be billed automatically.

If you don't like it, just send it back within 30 days, and you won't be charged (Don't worry, if the mail takes too long, and I get it back 31 days later and you've been charged, I'll give you a full refund).

Can it get any better?

Of course it can…

I also realize that a serious investment like this might stretch your current budget a little bit. So I'd like to sweeten this deal and truly make it “an offer you'd be crazy to refuse”.

If you order right now, I'll spread your payments out so they're MONTHLY. You won't make your first payment until 30 days after you order, and you'll be automatically charged in equal monthly installments… it's that easy.

I could not POSSIBLY make it any more easy or low risk for you.

When you click on a button below, you'll be taken to a secure order page where you can order your program (just use a valid credit or debit card for your order).

Go through this program from beginning to end. You will see INSTANT RESULTS… and instant change for the better in your love life.

Use the materials all you want for up to 30 days at MY RISK.

If you decide that it's not for you - for ANY REASON - just send it back and you pay NOTHING.

If you'd like to keep it (and I'm betting that you will), you don't have to do anything. You'll be billed automatically in easy monthly payments.

I truly want to help you find or create an amazing love life. I get emails every day from women who are using my materials to improve their dating life or their long-term relationship, and I want to help you too.

Click on one of the links below, and place your order now:
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Every one of us dreams of one day experiencing that “storybook” romance with that special person we are meant to share our lives with…

 We think about how wonderful it will feel to finally be with that person… look into their eyes… and KNOW that we’ve found the love and connection we’ve been searching for.

 But one thing it’s taken me a long time to realize is that there is no “peak point” or “pinnacle” in love…

 I’ve realized that love is an exciting journey we share with someone special… and that the journey of love is the pinnacle of LIFE.

 This journey will always have a beginning… which starts when you meet that special someone you are meant to share your life with… but it doesn’t always have to have an end.

 The key to keeping it alive is getting through the inevitable obstacles all couples face as they become closer and more connected with one another… and turning them into learning experiences which bring you closer together instead of pushing you apart.

 I’ve designed this program to help guide you along your path… and ensure that the journey you share with your soul mate is one of never-ending love and happiness.

 Click on one of these links and start it today.
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Wishing you the best in life and in love,

Christian Carter

 P.S. This program will show you exactly how to take a “casual” situation with a man to a deeply connected, committed relationship. But most importantly, it will show you how to do it in a way that makes your man feel totally comfortable and completely EXCITED about the opportunity to enhance the intimate bond you share. You’ll be able to use what you learn in the program IMMEDIATELY… and you’ll see results INSTANTLY in the form of a more connected and passionate relationship. I truly want to help you experience the love and connection you deserve, and this program will help you do it.

P.P.S. This program will be shipped to you in a PLAIN BOX for your privacy. If you have any questions about it, just go to our Support Page or send an email to questions@catchhimandkeephim.com.


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Read What Others Have To Say…
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“This program taught me a lot about myself and helped me to better understand the relationship I am already in. The mystery of how to communicate with my partner about relationship issues has now been solved.”
– B., business person, Los Angeles, CA

“I've always felt a lot of anxiety about how a relationship was progressing when I was dating someone. Christian has given me the tools and information that help me to understand and trust in the natural progression of things. I can now relax and feel confident in a relationship with a man.”
– C., therapist, Bakersfield, CA

“Christian Carter made my mind do a U-turn! I attended this program because I was tired of not knowing how to handle certain situations when it comes to dating. This program has turned out to be so much more than I expected. I learned a lot about dealing with dating issues but also so much about improving myself. It has totally changed my perspective about men and a lot of things. This was a very valuable investment.”
– L., sales, Chicago, IL

“I’ve felt a lot of confusion and frustration in my dating life. I’ve learned things from this program that I was totally unaware of about dating, relationships, and men. I didn’t realize that often things were going just fine in my past relationships and that I would actually break us apart due to my own anxiety. Now I know what to do about that. This program is an absolute must have. ”
– B., sports management, San Diego, CA

“Women aren’t given these insights about relationships at school or at home, yet society automatically expects them to succeed in this area of life. I have not found information like this for women any other place. And the guest speakers are a very valuable bonus.”
– F., New Jersey

“I can now stop spinning my wheels in fear! I have found out what is happening in my relationships with men, why a guy acts the way he does, and how he views different stages of relationships and commitment. I’ve learned to maintain my own happy state.”
– B., Alhambra, CA

“Christian has helped me to identify times in my relationships where I thought it was the end and it was actually a time of great opportunity and new growth. This program was invaluable at giving me insights about how men think differently than women.”
– R. Oregon

“If you have any questions about the relationship you are in, Christian Carter is the place to find your answers. He is a man that genuinely wants to help.”
– L.G., Bakersfield, CA

“I returned to the dating world a year ago after a breakup. It felt as though I had come here from another planet. There a zillion books, websites, coaches, therapist, etc., out there who all have advice. Talk about overwhelming! This program was different because I felt I was really given some true insights in how a man thinks. Now it all makes sense and this dating stuff seems like something I can be successful with again. Thank you, Christian.”
– L.W., Los Angeles, CA

“Christian helped me to figure out what I really want out of a relationship. I always assumed I knew, but I never really gave it much thought. Now I am sure of what I want and how to get there and I am excited about the future.”
– L.S., Los Angeles, CA


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