Are Men Afraid of Relationships?
I bet you can think of at least one man who was intent on staying single and even
shunned what could have been a great relationship with amazing woman just because he
didn’t want a “serious relationship.”
But then, just a few weeks or months later, that man met another woman. And within just
a few weeks with this new woman he was completely sprung and head over heels for her…
and he was begging HER for a committed relationship.
If you’re like most women, then you’ve seen several men you know do this “instant switch”
thing where all of a sudden they want a serious relationship, even though all they could
talk about before was being “on their own.”
Here’s the reality: Most men are never “ready” for a relationship… not until they feel
the magical feelings and experiences with a woman that tell them “Hey, this is the woman
“For a man, the connection he feels with a woman early on can have nothing to do with whether or not he wants a relationship with her.”
A Man Rarely Consciously Decides To Fall In Love
Love - and a lasting relationship – is something that a man discovers when a woman
affects him in a deep, intense, emotional way to the point where he literally makes a
“shift,” and his old conscious and “logical” thoughts of wanting to wait are simply
overcome with his DESIRE.
A woman is totally different. When a woman feels that intense physical and emotional
connection with a man, she’s often carried away by it. And when this happens, something
fascinating takes place inside the minds and bodies of most women…
They start to believe that the connection they feel with a man is in and of itself proof
that this is a “special” situation. It makes them believe that it’s going to become a
deeper relationship and that the man must be sharing these same feelings.
Connection Does Not Equal Relationship
For a man, the connection he feels with a woman early on can have nothing to do with
whether or not he wants a relationship with her.
He may call her, spend time with her, and even get physically involved with her even though
he doesn’t yet want a relationship with her.
What I’m getting at here is that there’s a danger in dating if you don’t understand how men
think and behave. There’s a danger in that you as the woman expect one thing because of the
connection you feel, but the man is completely in a different place, emotionally. I call
this “The Danger Of A Connection.”
To learn more about “The Danger of A Connection” and what it can cost you in dating if you
don’t understand how it works, read my eBook Catch Him And Keep Him.
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