3 Things A Man Looks for In A Girlfriend
Men are biologically wired to look for and feel attracted to women who have the
qualities and traits that indicate a high level of health and “fitness.”
But unfortunately, this screening process that’s going on inside a man’s mind is
This is part of the reason why so often a woman will ask a man why he’s feeling one
way or another… or why he’s acting different or not interested in a relationship,
and he can’t explain it. It’s just the way he feels. Either he feels attracted,
or he doesn’t.
Of course, these “biological buttons” aren’t the only thing going on inside a man’s
mind. Men do have more conscious processes for the way they choose a woman and for
the way they feel.
If trying to cram all this into your head, understand what it means, and figure out
how to respond to all these things while trying to have a real conversation with a
man seems ridiculous and daunting to you – it should.
The reality is that you can’t sit and think to yourself, “Gee, I’d like him to think
I’d make a good mate who could rear successful and healthy children. I’ll tell him
about how healthy my family and I are.”
“A man looks at much subtler ‘cues’ about a woman that tell him
whether or not she’s a good long-term prospect.”
It just doesn’t work that way. A man looks at much subtler “cues” about a woman that
tell him whether or not she’s a good long-term prospect.
Some of these cues are:
A man will unconsciously register your hip-to-waist ratio and
will possibly feel physical attraction based on this since it’s an indicator of fertility.
Things like how white the whites in your eyes are, your scent, and the tone
and nature of your skin are all subtle indicators of a healthy immune system. Men find
white eyes, certain scents, and smooth skin attractive not because they know they indicate
that a woman is healthy and will have a high likelihood of success for offspring, but
because they feel attracted to these things for reasons they can’t even explain.
If a woman has the kind of attitude and “vibe” about her that is
fun to be around, stimulating, exciting, and positive and consistent, then a man will
subconsciously see her as a good long-term mate.
It could take a long time to figure out all the things that truly interest and attract
men, as well as the more subtle and complex things that make a man become EMOTIONALLY
INVOLVED with a woman.
And even then you might not arrive at what is really going on with men, and how to make
a relationship come together and work.
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